And homework time often takes place when kids are wiped out and grumpy. Then it’s a lot easier because they feel like they’re not alone.”Įspecially when a child is having trouble with it, homework is often difficult or boring, says Christine Carter, child development expert and author of Raising Happiness. Everybody’s doing homework at homework time. I put all the children at the table: a preschooler, an eleventh grader, a middle schooler. “What I do is: homework time for the whole family. Tillman says you want to motivate your child, but you also want to make sure they understand that you’re not going to engage in a battle over homework. “The child says, ‘I’m not doing my homework!’ The parent says, ‘Yes you are doing your homework!’ Then it’s back-and-forth and arguing.” “Often times, parents go negative,” observes America’s Supernanny Deborah Tillman. So what would make it easier for you? Divide up the work? Do five problems before supper and five after? Or would you rather play first, and tackle them all at once?” But then, she says, explain the problem and talk through solutions: “The problem is your teacher insists that everyone get more practice. After sitting in class all day, probably the last thing you feel like doing is sitting down again and working on 10 long division problems.” This is the empathetic way Adele Faber, author of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, suggests wading into a conversation about hating homework. But how can parents respond in a way that’s helpful, builds your parent-child bond, and reinforces the idea that your child’s education and learning are hugely important? We asked the experts to weigh in. Honestly, it’s hard to argue when your child say they hate homework.
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